fase dimana saya minder abis2an dan capek dibilang foto2 menipu

maap td mau curhat,tp skrg males.byebye

The charity Beatbullying said young people experienced most abuse on the instant messaging service MSN and the social networking site Bebo.

“We know the consequences of online bullying are just as traumatic as those of face-to-face bullying,” said the organisation’s boss Emma-Jane Cross.

“We want all social networking sites, internet service providers and mobile phone companies to take measures to identify and remove offensive material.”

The release of the new research is timed to coincide with national anti-bullying week which this year concentrates on internet and mobile phone abuse.

‘Faceless online’

Almost two thirds of the 2,094 11 to 18-year-olds surveyed by the charity in England said they had seen some form of online bullying.

“People find it very easy because they aren’t actually looking at the person and they can’t see what they feel like afterwards,” 13-year-old Tim admitted.

Half the people surveyed had heard of people setting up a fake profile pretending to be another person; one in five had seen hate sites or groups set up to bully someone online.

Tim’s classmate Bethan, 14, added: “Friends can sometimes be cowardly to your face but as soon as they press the sign in button everything just tumbles out.”

Fifty-eight per cent of those targeted said bullying had taken place on the instant messaging service MSN, now renamed Windows Live Messenger.

Microsoft, which runs it, said it does not tolerate bullying on its network but “as with any communication service, these online communication tools are misused by a tiny minority”.

It has created a special area of the Windows Live site where users can get advice on how to deal with bullying and report any abusive messages.

Thirty-two per cent of those bullied had also been the target of some form of abuse on the social networking site Bebo, which is aimed at younger users, compared with 11% on Facebook and 10% on MySpace.

‘Not enough protection’

Bebo said it had strict terms of use in place which all teenagers signed up to when they registered.

It keeps a record of users’ behaviour which can be passed on to the police in extreme cases.

“Unfortunately, anti-social behaviour, both on and offline, is an aspect of the society we live in but Bebo is committed to providing its community with the safest possible environment,” said a spokesman.

‘Not enough protection’

Bebo said it had strict terms of use in place which all teenagers signed up to when they registered.

It keeps a record of users’ behaviour which can be passed on to the police in extreme cases.

“Unfortunately, anti-social behaviour, both on and offline, is an aspect of the society we live in but Bebo is committed to providing its community with the safest possible environment,” said a spokesman.

All social networking sites let users report abusive material and ask for comments to be deleted from online profiles.

But almost half the children and teenagers surveyed by Beatbullying said the sites still did not offer enough protection.

The charity says social networks need to make it easier for users to complain about abusive posts.

It wants a commitment from the sites to take down offensive material within six hours.

“They do need to take more responsibility,” said Richard Piggin from Beatbullying.

“There is a lot of material posted on those sites every day but there is more they can do in terms of moderation and referring on complaints.”

“Young people have to take some responsibility as well. There is a lot they can do around their privacy settings and making sure they really know the people they are talking to.”

“At the end of the day, everyone needs to know what is acceptable and what is not online.

Girls seem to be “permanently connected” to sites like Facebook and Bebo, president of the Girls’ Schools Association Jill Berry said.

This issue now tops the list of parents’ worries by some way, she told the association’s annual conference.

Mrs Berry also argued that girls’ interest in fashion should not be mistaken for being “shallow”.

The leader of the girls’ private school association said there was no contradiction in girls being interested in fashion and wanting to be seen as intelligent feminists.

“Girls can be highly intelligent and interested in being seen to be attractive – the two aren’t mutually exclusive.

“Caring about physical appearance and fashion and wanting to look good doesn’t have to be a betrayal of some feminist ideal. I love shoes but it doesn’t make me shallow. Girls can have fun and also be taken seriously.”

‘We hate x’

Mrs Berry, who is head teacher of Dame Alice Harpur School in Bedford, highlighted concerns about girls spending too long on networking websites.

“They [parents] worry about the addictive nature of networking sites and the fact that their daughters seem to be permanently connected.

“They ask us what to do about their daughters being on the receiving end of ‘We hate x’ sites or ‘honesty boxes’ where comments about each other can be posted anonymously,” she told the conference.

These problems had overtaken their concerns about the girls’ face-to-face contact in school, she said.

Mrs Berry added: “Our schools now need routinely to advise parents about internet safety, in addition to working to educate the girls and to encourage them to be responsible in their relationships on and off line.

“We do have to educate girls – we can’t simply protect them.”

A Facebook spokeswoman said: “It’s equally convenient to characterise TV and video game usage as time-consuming distractions.

“Yet there’s academic research that touts the benefits of these activities and services like Facebook. Regardless, it’s in the hands of users, to define priorities and decide how to spend their time.”

She added that Facebook had a range of safety tips to ensure users remained safe online.

These include, users being careful to only accept friend requests from people they know and to report any messages or profiles that look suspicious.

BBC UK

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dan mukanya,jangan samakan dengan Joel Madden! he’s English and i adore him!

some of his song’s on Youtube :

Ooh Wee – with Ghostface Killah and Nate Dogg

Valerie – with Amy Winehouse (versions of the zutons)

Oh My God – with Lilly Allen

and my favorite song’s with two gorgeous man inside….JUST – with Alex Greenwald of Phantom Planet!

harusnya saya mengurus ttg lanjutan kuliah saya,tp dikarenakan salah pengertian,jd ga ktmu2 jg.

ibu nya nyuruh saya tlp.tp saya mlh dtg.goblok memang.

and it happens.beliau telat.ga ktmu malah.saya udh cpek aja jalan2 ga jelas.lecet.

udah cukup bsok lwt tlp aja.terima kasih

yang lucu adalah kakek memutuskan untuk tidak jadi puasa krn telat bangun,pdhl msh ada waktu 15 menit.hhe

yaudah ga jd ikut.

skrg jam stgh 11 dan hr ini mendung banget.pantesan bantal saya rasana enak pagi ini.hahaha

hr ini mau laminating sertifikat bla2.ok see u!

too many excercise or diet plan makes me weak! argh!

kluar tol buah batu,kami turun.naik angkot 5 menit.nyampe deh.(tau kn kmpus saya dimana?)

setelah nemenin puput beli bakso ikan (yayaya) dan lumpia basah buat saya,hehe.kami cabut.kampus masih seperti yang dulu.bertemu teman2 yg masih stay disana.menuju SSA,bertemu dosen2 favorit.termasuk dosen pembimbing TA saya.feels like yesterday ketika anda masuk ke kampus jam 10,liat jadwal,cabut ke kelas atau hanya stay di ruang konsultasi untuk main/mengerjakan codingan.saya ambil sertifikat dan transkrip saya.alhamdulillah bagus.hanya saja mata kuliah yang saya betulin nilainya kmrn ko ga berubah jg.msh vitamin C.jadi dua lagi.jahat.

setelah ngobrol ngalur ngidul,saya ke kantin.makan2 kecil.ketemu tika.sahabat saya disana.dia msh di bdg juga.tp beda kampus.sayang dia ga bisa lama.haaah payah.menuju tempat makan yang kami kenal dgn nama sangkuriang.saya janjian dgn sahabat saya,Kemal Akbar.lagi,melepas rindu hanya saat makan ayam.lumayan juga,mengingat saat ini cm bisa contact lwt twitter dan msn aja.tp ga bisa ngobrol ttg curhat terakhir kami krn ada puput.hehe.

saya tadinya mau sms joshua filemon johannes,hanya saja saya pikir dia dan irvandias anggriawan sdg uts,jd urung melaksanakan niat itu.pdhl merekalah yg sudah wanti2.maap ya teman.

balik ke kampus,kami berdua menyelesaikan bbrp urusan,bertemu dosen2 lagi (pak jamillllahhhhh ahhaha) dan memutuskan untuk cabut krn sdh jam 3 dan memesan travel jam 4.berat rasanya memang,tp krn sudah niat PP,ya sabar.

yang lucu saat di pool travel.saya liat ada motor masuk dgn pengemudi mirip joshua,saya nanya sama puput sambil buang muka.dia ga sadar pdhl jarak kami hanya 10 cm.pas dia buka helm,saya sok2 bilang sma puput “mirip vidi aldiano” hahaha dia nengok2 males,dan “damn!” hahaha ga nyangka bakal ktmu.bener deh,mending ga ktmu sama skali drpd ktmu cm 10 mnit trus saya cabut.mana dia bilang “nunggu jam 4 ah”.dia cm mau ambil charger hp nya yg ktinggalan di jkt dan baru dikirim.

pulang ke jakarta.berat abis.suasana melow yg saya dan puput hindari karena kita ga ktmu genk kita (ria,buha,budan,nuky,adek) makin2.mereka lg ada urusan sendiri.kecapekan melanda gila2an.bru nyampe tol,ud mau merem.saya smpt mau nangis ketika melewati tol pasteur.memikirkan mereka yang lain,yang tidak semapt saya temui.(baca:banyak).

jam 10 mlm.buka tweetdeck.joshua dan irvandias mengobrol ttg saya.

@joshuaFJ ://Ah bisa2nya td ketemu sekre cacad di pool travel ..

@irvandias:@joshuaFJ ko bisa ktmu jo?

saya balas : maaf van,td buru2.

irvan : ko bs ktmu jojo?..

dll dll……

buka Facebook : status saya “ke bandung hari ini “

comment : – ngapain ka?kuliah lagi

- lama ga?

blabla..

saya bikin tweets ” maap ya ga bisa lama2 di bandung”

bahkan sampai detik ini saya msh menerima protes dikarenakan durasi saya di bandung tidak lama.dari org2 yg di jakarta juga.saya blm tau brp lagi  yg mau nanya tp memilih diam dan….saya mau nangis!

sekali lagi,maafkan saya reggiereinaldy,irvandias,algunur dan  =)

suatu hari saya akan menebusnya.saya janji.

terima kasih sahabat.terima kasih kenangan indah yang pasti menjadi motivasi saya….